you, my friend, need to grab hold of the wheel. you, my friend, must control your own life. many times you cannot do things on your own. perhaps you are just too self righteous and refuse to. i, nor do anyone else, understand your ways. throughout this journey, you've taken things, many many things, with no intention of repayment. it's clear that you are very aware of the acts you commit, for you usually repeat them and speak of them. it also seems as if you enjoy purposely pointing out others insecurities, their flaws, the things that they hope no one notices. your tendencies and outbursts leave us all dazed and confused. yet, it has all led us to one conclusion: that you cannot be trusted. we cannot even fathom acting back the ways that you act toward us because we know it would be too harsh.. doesn't that mean anything to you? we lash out at you because we've been bottling up all of this anger and resentment. it has not occured to us to confront you or discuss this with you because you would simply feel as if you were being attacked. we do not know what to do anymore. it's not as if you can change the person you are. the way you act is your personality. unfortunately, it's not compatible with ours. we are not trying to purposely hurt you, we are simply attempting to protect ourselves and lashing back at your rude, insensitive, innapropriate, off-topic, un-needed, over the top comments is the only way we know how.